The following article is
adapted from my response to a question from one of my most thoughtful followers,
who asked me about the validity of optimism in the context of realism, in clear
recognition that the world is very troubled in the year 2017. I regard the response as having prospects for directing
attention to the potential of each of these holidays for activating the best,
too often latent, inclinations of the human spirit.
The adaptation of my
response to this highly reflective reader is as follows:
I am a big enthusiast for the Thanksgiving holiday and lament how among
the holidays as practiced by Christians in the United States the day of
expressing gratitude toward God often gets short shrift as people rush to
put up Christmas lights, wreathes, and other decorations, and to be thinking already
of Christmas in its all too material aspects.
I love Christmas, but Thanksgiving is a very important day to me and
well-embedded in the nature of my personal theology:
My prayers to the Divine are entirely prayers of gratitude, for my
many blessings but even for the challenges, which keep me from getting too
comfortable and from taking those many blessings for granted, and which
inevitably strengthen me for the challenges that will next appear. Other
forms of prayer for me, beyond expression of gratitude, I trust to the Divine
to understand in the beating of my heart, in the depths of my soul, in the
nature of my actions, and as I interact with my fellow human beings.
Life is a gift, to be treasured, lived at the highest level of
commitment, guided always by LOVE. My overwhelming impulse, especially at
this time of year, but also throughout the year is to live life gratefully, as
a Song of Gratitude to God for the many opportunities to do well and to do
good with the Great Gift of Life, the earthly sojourn that as far as we know
comes but once.
In my expressions of gratitude to the Divine and in my commitment to contribute
my energies to improving the current wretched circumstances of humanity in the
year 2017, I am a reflexive, inveterate, unrelenting optimist. I can
constitutionally live life no other way. My mother, who died at age 96 on
16 September 2017, was such an optimist, and this was even truer of her own
mother, my maternal grandmother (who died in 1996 at age 101); despite facing many challenges in life, this
towering spiritual presence was the most joyous person I have ever known.
My maternal grandmother lived life as a dedicated teacher as well as
mother and friend to all of those in her social universe. I only found out less than five years ago
that she, as a teacher in a small town, requested transfer from a school with a
mostly middle class student body to a school in a part of town where children
grew up in families of severe poverty.
Inasmuch as this is the same vocational commitment that I have made and
now express in the New Salem Educational Initiative and as a K-12
revolutionary, finding out about her request of transfer deepened the
connection that she and I felt at the core of our beings from the time I was a
very young child, on through adulthood.
A story that my grandmother told that always touched my mother greatly
was the following:
My grandmother always asked the children in her class upon return from
the Christmas holiday what they did and what they received as
gifts. To one of her most impoverished students she asked this
question and received the simple answer,
"A little red wagon."
My grandmother said, "Well, that's great. What else
did you get?"
To which the little boy replied, "Well, what more would you want
than a little red wagon?"
Though an optimist, I am a severe critic of life as so many people live
it in 2017. I consider endeavoring to do everything I can do to induce
people to think and act more responsibly, to love more fully, to treat all
people with respect, and to make our society more equitable to be my sacred
responsibility. God has impressed upon me my need to commit my time to work
for a far better, truly excellent education for all of our precious
children. In this work I can express the criticism that I have as a
realist disgusted with much of life as it is; while
unrelentingly expressing my view as an optimist that life can and will be
so much better.
God, the Divine, Allah, Yahweh, the World Soul---expects no
less.
Here's a beautiful quote by author Courtney Walsh :
ReplyDeleteDear Human : You've got it all wrong.
You didn't come here to master unconditional love.
That is where you came from and where you'll return.
You came here to learn personal love.
Universal love. Messy love. Sweaty love.
Crazy love. Broken love. Whole love.
Infused with divinity. Lived through the grace of stumbling.
Demonstrated through the beauty of...messing up. Often.
You didn't come here to be perfect. You already are.
You came here to be gorgeously human. Flawed and fabulous. And then to rise again into remembering.
But unconditional love? Stop telling that story.
Love, in truth, doesn't need ANY other adjectives.
It doesn't require modifiers. It doesn't require the condition of perfection.
It only asks that you show up. And do your best.
That you shine and fly and laugh and cry and hurt and heal and fall and get back up and play and work and live and die as YOU.
It's enough. It's Plenty.
As always, Hayet, you make every day better with your loving heart and thoughtful reflections--- I am honored to be your correspondent and to have you as a reader---
DeleteInspiration fuels inspiration. I have been following your blog for two years now,I guess I've finally learned how to walk in your steps. Thanks for your tremendous effort to make the world a better place everyday.
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